Sunday, September 8, 2019

Harvey

A lesson from a goldfish? You must be kidding! Not at all. Read on...


His name was Harvey; and he was a goldfish. Although Harvey was a very small goldfish, he made a tremendous impact on the little boy who owned him. That boy’s name was Howard Friend. He’s all grown up now, a Presbyterian pastor who writes books. I’m going to tell you about Harvey in Howard’s own words. (from Recovering the Sacred Center by Howard Friend, 1998, Judson Press, p. 5-6)

For my sixth birthday I received from my grandmother a goldfish I named Harvey. After school I would pull a dining room chair up to the bay window where we put Harvey’s bowl and carefully pinch in just the right amount of food. As I watched him swim in the shimmering afternoon sun, something caught my eye. Harvey always swam around his bowl in the same direction, in the same path, at the same speed – an inch inside the rim of the bowl, an inch below the surface of the water, round and round like the hands of a clock. If I stirred the water with my finger, or pinched in the food along a different trail, he would change direction – but only for a minute. Then back he would go to his predictable, boring pattern. When Harvey’s bowl turned cloudy, Grandma announced, “It’s time to change his water. We’ll fetch him out with that little net we brought from the pet store and put him in the spaghetti pot while we clean his bowl.” I had a better idea. “Let’s put Harvey in the bathtub while we clean his bowl,” I suggested. Harvey could swim from one end of the tub to the other, back and forth, along the bottom and across the top. “He’ll have a terrific time!” I said. Grandma carried Harvey’s bowl up the stairs to the bathroom, eased it over the edge of the tub, gently lowered it to the surface of the water, and poured Harvey in. “C’mon, Harvey,” I said out loud. He just lay there at first, a little stunned, I guess. Then he perked up. He was ready, I was sure, to begin some real exploring. But to my disappointment and amazement, Harvey began to swim in a circle about ten inches across and an inch below the surface of the water, like the hands of a clock – just like in his bowl!

Harvey’s behavior made quite an impression on Howard. To this day, he remembers how puzzled he was that Harvey refused to take advantage of the opportunity to swim all the way around that big bathtub. Many years later, he realized that Harvey isn’t the only one who behaves like this. Some people do the very same thing! Even when their situation changes, when fresh needs arise and new opportunities appear, they keep swimming in the same old circles, doing the same things over and over again. We look at them and wonder, “Why don’t they change? Can’t they see that they need to do something different?”

Unfortunately, churches tend to follow the very same pattern. They do what is familiar and comfortable, resisting change until it is thrust upon them, and they can escape it no longer. Some of them refuse to embrace change until it is too late, and they are forced to close their doors. Why in the world do they behave like that? I could explain it by telling you that we sometimes can’t see beyond the ends of our noses; or that we can imagine new possibilities, but we’re afraid to act on them; but I’ll bet that you know those things already. And simply being aware that we are in a bad situation doesn’t influence our behavior as much as we would like to believe that it does. (If you have ever tried to argue someone out of a political opinion by using reason, you know very well what I’m talking about!)

So we just keep doing what we’ve always done. We forget that our God is a God of novelty! God does new things all the time! When the Hebrews fleeing slavery in Egypt stood on the bank of the Red Sea, God parted those waters and asked them to step out in faith; because God was going to do something that had never been done before in the history of the world! When the Israelites were in exile in Babylon, none of them expected that when Cyrus of Persia conquered the Babylonians, he would let all those homesick refugees return to their homeland. And when Jesus of Nazareth appeared and claimed to be the Messiah, not very many people believed that this peasant from a Podunk village in Galilee would set them free, not from the Roman Empire, but from sin and death itself! And when God does new things, God invites us to get with the program and join in the new things that God is doing!

As you join in the program of discernment that our congregation is beginning, I invite you to listen for God inviting us to do something new! We will have plenty of time to listen for God’s voice, to discern what God is calling us to do, and to plan how we’re going to proceed into the future. All kinds of possibilities are open to us; and God will accompany us as we discern which of those possibilities we will live into. Let’s learn a lesson from Harvey, shall we? God has given us a very big bathtub. Let’s swim in every bit of it!

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